I am not opposed to this advice but wouldnt one get a more intimate connection with partner if it were just the two ? In particular, if you hear something personal from your spouse for the first time and it’s shared with another couple.
It seems to me that result is giving a more personal and intimate connection amongst all 4, not just you are your partner. What are your thoughts Dr. Boardman?
I’ve read many real life stories where this constant need to bring another couple on dates turns out to be detrimental - too much intimacy within the foursome leads couples to have affairs: « But we did everything together…I can’t believe she ran off with my husband! »
I am not opposed to this advice but wouldnt one get a more intimate connection with partner if it were just the two ? In particular, if you hear something personal from your spouse for the first time and it’s shared with another couple.
It seems to me that result is giving a more personal and intimate connection amongst all 4, not just you are your partner. What are your thoughts Dr. Boardman?
I’ve read many real life stories where this constant need to bring another couple on dates turns out to be detrimental - too much intimacy within the foursome leads couples to have affairs: « But we did everything together…I can’t believe she ran off with my husband! »
It's ideal to have a few drinks and then some dessert, https://theredquest.substack.com/p/couple-to-couple-dating-mechanics-and-keeping-a-texting-roster-for-sex-clubs
I’d be offended by these questions.